It’s an underground language nobody understands unless they were there. Sure you can get by with someone who is clueless. Just keep it to yourself.
But in the most vulnerable moments of life, there is nothing like having someone look into your eyes who knows exactly what you are thinking. Without words you both just know. There is a blood bond. Because it felt like literally giving blood when trapped inside when you knew it was over.
Every challenge in life is weighed compared to the survival from a cult and the severe hurt experienced by loved ones shunning you.
When you both feel it, there is no need for descriptions. Large amounts of leeway are easy to oblige in the most tedious of moments. You survived trauma. Separately or together. You won. You share. You continue. You thrive.
A common denominator, that is strong enough to compel you to overcome and strive for happiness and success, is extremely powerful. Even in relationships that may not be a match made in heaven, debunking JW myths and cliches together is pretty damn euphoric.
Having someone who just gets it is remarkable, and I recommend it. Tackle your histories together and find comfort you understand a huge percentage of what’s going on in that other persons mind without a word!